Conquering
Fear on the Road to Wholeness – Matthew 25:14-30
Part
Three
How
many of us have permitted gut wrenching fear to rob us of joy and liberty in
daily living! Fear prevents a return to
school to earn high school equivalency or college or graduate degree. From day to day, we utilize shallow excuses
to cloak penetrating fear.
Unfortunately, some of us settle for a severely reduced standard of
living in regards to relationships because our fears coerce us to tolerate “unacceptable”
situations. We remain in unfulfilling,
unrewarding and possibly disrespectful relationships. The most extreme example is a battered spouse
who stays because he or she is afraid to leave.
For such an unfortunate person, fear becomes larger than life as he or
she no longer believes that life offers any better possibilities for love,
communication, trust and respect. Other
people’s internal terror and anticipation of their spouse’s reaction tolerate
emotional and verbal abuse. As people
settle for meager modes of living, fear turns them into zombies. They cease to dream or pursue the life that
they imagined within the innocence of their youth. Practically, they fail to reach for anything
more, higher, greater, or deeper. I
firmly believe that a person who stops dreaming has stopped living! Each of us possesses a dream file in the deep
recesses of our consciousness and hearts.
I reason that our dreams connect to our purpose for being. Sarah Vaugh, the late jazz vocalist who
hailed from Newark, New Jersey, sang, “You’ve got to have a dream. You’ve got to have a dream. ‘Cause if you don’t have a dream. How you gone have a dream come true?” Fear destroys dreams and kills our efforts to
achieve them. With contrasting
encouragement, the enduring words of President Franklin Delano Roosevelt
empowers us to forsake fear. In the
height of the Great Depression, he exhorted the nation, “The only thing that we
have to fear is fear itself!”
It
is easy to condemn the third servant whom I charitably characterize as “Mr.
Trifling.” However, we must humbly admit
that we share his pain and suffering. We
can relate to his predicament. This
servant lacks self-confidence.
Unsurprisingly, he surrenders to his fears like a victim of
circumstances. Fundamentally, fear is a
self-centered emotion yielding unwillingness to accept on its terms and not
ours. Risk is a necessary precursor to
achievement and success. The third
servant wanted advance assurance of success before trying to earn an
investment. Whatever the origins and
causes (past experiences, dysfunctional family or previous failures) of his low
self-worth, they did not justify the servant’s resentment of his master’s
success. Biblical commentators concur
that the words of the third servant to his master are ones of bitterness, envy,
jealousy, contempt and resentment. Some
people have equal feelings towards their friends, neighbors and coworkers. We resent them for conquering their fears and
then succeeding. We focus on other
people instead of examining ourselves.
It is easier to assassinate other people’s character and denigrate them
instead of undergoing slow, excruciating and painstaking self-evaluation which
inevitably yields personal growth and spiritual development.
The
twenty-sixth verse suggests that fear leads to perversion, evil and
wickedness. Fear lies beneath much
untoward behavior that we classically label as sin. I define sin as “choices of patterns of
behavior that work against me.” Fear
compels choices that impeded a person’s progress toward wholeness. Fear of intimacy and its necessary
vulnerability are the source of a lot of sexual promiscuity. Fear contributes to countless and
immeasurable societal problems such as alcoholism, gambling, drug abuse, debt
and mental illness.
In
closing, as we travel the road of wholeness, how are we to conquer fear in our
daily lives? How are we to defeat this
thief who comes to kill, steal and destroy our joy? I would like to offer a few practical
suggestions. First, Jesus Christ came to
impart abundant and eternal life to anyone who genuinely believes in Him. Practically speaking, Christ delivers
believers from fear: Deuteronomy 31:6-8; Joshua 1:9; Psalm 27:1-2, 34:4, 46:1,
46:10; Isaiah 41:10-13, 42:16, 43:1-3, 50:7, 52:12, 54:17; 2 Corinthians 5:17;
Romans 8:1, 28-39 and 2 Timothy 1:7.
Second, the Word of God calms all fears and soothes each doubt. As you progress along your journey to
wholeness and clouds of fear and doubt burst on the horizon, you can find
relief and solace in 2 Corinthians 5:7, “We walk by faith and not by sight,” among
other scriptures. This verse assures you
that Christ walks with you; when you walk by faith in Almighty God, you are
never left to walk alone. Moreover, the
Psalter enduringly says, “Yea, thou I walk through the valley of the shadow of
death, I will fear no evil. Thou art
with me. Thy rod and thy staff comfort me.”
As the title of an encouraging and empowering book pertaining to cancer
survival by the late Larry Burkett posits, There
Is Nothing to Fear.
Prayer
alleviates all forms of anxiety. One
author proposes, “Courage is fear that has said its prayers.” As we obediently and faithfully pray without
ceasing, we cultivate courageous faith to surmount any adversaries and
adversities that we might face.
Build
a support network of fellow disciples.
Attend services with your church family as often as possible. When you feel alone, afraid, weak and abandoned,
someone within your fellowship will have an encouraging word from the
Lord. Someone else will intercede on your
behalf. Yet another person may offer an
empathic word of testimony.
Additionally,
you might consider supplementary sources of help in conquering fear. Pastoral or psychoanalytic counseling may
prove helpful. A twelve-step program or
some other type of support group might meet your needs.
Allow
me a final reiteration as my last point.
The Apostle Paul exhorts the Ephesians, “Be strong in the Lord and the
power of His might.” I accordingly urge
you to utilize God’s word and power to conquer any fear in your life. Personally, I rely upon Psalm Twenty-seven
(27) in time of terror. It says,
The
Lord is my light and mu salvation
Whom
shall I fear?
The
Lord is the stronghold of my life
Of
whom shall I be afraid? …
Though
an army besieges me
My
heart will not fear
Though
war breaks out against me
Even
then will I be confident …
When
evil men advance against me
To
devour my flesh
When
my enemies and my foes attack me
They
will stumble and fall …
Though
my mother and my father forsake me
The
Lord will receive me …
I
am still confident of this
I
will see the goodness of the Lord
In
the land of the living …
Wait
for the Lord
Be
strong and take heart
And
wait for the Lord
Weep
not! Wail not! Mourn not!
Fear not! God does not leave abandon
or forsake. He gives His power to you to
enable you to conquer fear on the road to wholeness.