Zechariah, A Case Study in the Importance of Silence Luke 1:5-25 – Part Three

 

Zechariah, A Case Study in the Importance of Silence

Luke 1:5-25 – Part Three

 

Have you ever had the experience of a friend calling to ask your advice but as the conversation ensues you are unable speak? Your friend’s nervous energy and penetrating anxiety overwhelms you and the conversation. It forces you to simply listen. You hope your friend will calm down, take a deep breath and become silent. That pause will enable your friend to listen to you and consider creative solutions to his problem. I suspect God has that experience billions of times each day. Anxious disciples under the guise of prayer flee to Him for relief from their fears and adverse circumstances. Like frightened children who cannot sleep because they fear a monster lurks in the closet, these disciples seek miracles to eliminate their tiniest dissatisfaction. They find discomfort intolerable. The “Gospel of Wealth and Health” tells them that a slight seasonal cold or sneezing resulting from exposure to pollen and inflamed allergies require angelic intervention. A glance at a neighbor’s new car, learning of a relative’s move to a bigger house or observing a coworker’s promotion motivates them to storm the gates of heaven. They demand God’s direct, immediate and favorable intervention to increase their social position, material acquisition and financial standing. Silence would resolve these childlike challenges.

 

As disciples become still and silent in solitude, the Holy Spirit speaks, empowers and transforms. Paul instructs his protégé, Timothy, that God is not the source of any fear. Instead, God grants necessary emotional stability, reason and strength to overcome any fear that plagues us. “God has not given us a spirit of fear but love, power and a sound mind.” (2 Timothy 1:7) During times of disciplined prayer, meditation and silence, the Holy Spirit reminds disciples of God’s unfailing love. Regardless of any errors, crimes or sins of commission and omission, God’s faithful love does not change. His love empowers us to transcend any mistakes, guilt, regret, pain or toxic emotion. The Holy Spirit imparts divine strength and perseverance to enable disciples to eradicate fear and defeat any internal opposition or external threat.

 

“A sound mind” equates with reason, creativity, ingenuity and willingness to resolve any problems. Conceivably, the answer to prayers for financial blessing is an earnest desire to grow in stewardship of your finances. Absolving debt indirectly raises your income as you have more funds to access and utilize rather than servicing debt at high interest rates. Paying bills on time avoids late fees. Multiple failed relationships indicate a personal pattern that requires self-reflection.  If you are the least common denominator in each of these situations, perhaps you are the primary catalyst for any chaos and dissolution of the relationship. The spiritual disciplines of prayer and meditation aid you in detecting the behavioral patterns borne of past experiences that unconsciously propel you towards sabotaging your professional and personal relationships. Practically, the Holy Spirit enlightens you in discovering the problem and its root causes. He then equips you with reasonable strategies to resolve your dilemma.

 

Self-mastery is a process of taking a comprehensive inventory. You explore assets and liabilities, strengths and weaknesses, talents and deficiencies and successes and failures. Humorously, you examine “the good, bad and ugly.” You embrace a ruthlessly honest appraisal of your heart, mind and character. Carl Jung, famed Swiss analytical psychologist, discourses upon “the shadow” which is the dark side of a person’s character. There, the propensity towards self-centered motives and self-seeking choices lies. Indulgence of physical instincts that possibly results in myriad addictions also lay there. Potential to betray people, infidelity, theft, organized crime, refusal to forgive, toxic emotions and willingness to seize opportunities to indulge in crime and other adverse behavior. Traditional religious practices tend to ignore these aspects of a person’s character. People focus on “the good” with fallacious hope that it erases bad behavior and choices. However, self-mastery compels disciples to look intently at all dimensions of their character.

 

As the recovery community has taught for nearly a century, a primary step in resolving any internal difficulty is wholesale acceptance of it. Denial of any problems further suppresses it within a person’s mind and psyche. Most regrettably, suppression often leads to perversion. This inverse relationship often manifests in sexual scandals. Demands for unrealistic sexual practices usually  leads to promiscuity, infidelity and unwanted pregnancies. Self-mastery propels disciples towards holistic self-acceptance. You unconditionally and unequivocally recognize your total character and self. Rather than playing games of sinning and making mistakes and then performing formulaic rituals of forgiveness, you acknowledge these traits. In so doing, you empower yourself to neutralize them and resist the temptation to satisfy them. Ironically, admission of addiction empowers its sufferers to surmount it. “Sunlight is the best disinfectant.”  Pulling a negative characteristic from the shadow and examining it in the openness of communion with God yields power and strength to overcome it. Acceptance of a bent toward theft can motivate you to eradicate that trait as you refuse to imprison yourself to any detrimental attribute. The process of self-mastery allows you to find a “strange freedom” wherein you fully acknowledge all of who you are but equally realize that you do not have to slavishly indulge negative characteristics. You have liberty to resist.

 

Self-mastery is more than recognizing and purging pathology. Interestingly, it is an internal treasure hunt. Taking time to be still and reflect yields incalculable benefits. Employing the adage, “Listen to learn and learn to listen,” you stumble upon previously unknown  components of your character. You discover latent interests, talents and abilities that daily busyness obscures. You can check the dream file in your heart. There may be dusty items that hold the keys to unlocking the door for your next adventure. Admittedly, there are new joys, mysteries and experiences that await you. Has the pilot light of a particular dream remain lit throughout your life? Regardless of jobs, opportunities and challenges, you continually feel an inner compulsion to pursue a different career.  Your active imagination places you in a courtroom, classroom or boardroom. You may also choose to open your own business, enter the arena of athletics, pick up a paint brush, join a band, compose lyrics or decide to finally retire and pursue your passions with reckless abandon. In the process of self-mastery, you acquire the internal strength and resilience to rebuff emotional and circumstantial hurdles (age, finances, familial opposition, stereotypes, societal uneasiness, fear, tiredness, etc.). You simply learn to listen to your inner voice. It empowers you to strive toward a new future that includes all of who you are.