“As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” (Proverbs 27:17 – NIV) Today, I launch a new clergy collegial blog. I hope we will encourage and empower each other toward success and excellence in pastoral ministry. As I sit in the Pastor’s Study at Cambria Heights Community Church, I often ponder the possible feedback of clergy colleagues as it relates to preparing sermons, counseling in particularly difficult situation, designing fresh worship, balancing competing priorities of ministry, marriage and family, maintaining self-care, pursuing personal dreams and private interests outside of ministry and family, and finding resources to meet the ever evolving and changing needs of the people whom I serve. After a sustained period of prayer, reflection and meditation, I realize I can invite you to come “In The Pastor’s Study” for an exchange of ideas.

Wednesday, February 22, 2012

Bible Study Notes - Ruth 1:1-16 Part III


Bible Study Notes  
Family as Community  - Ruth 1:1-16 Part III

Ruth 1:13-16 – The Vow of Commitment

Ruth’s reply to Naomi’s urgings surpasses her selfless love.  For the rest of human history, these two women will teach generations what community and family really are.  Immediately, we assume communities develop around people who share common interests.  Usually, we associate communities with people from similar backgrounds, education, values, economic status and aspirations.  We define families with strict biological, genealogical and genetic connections.  In disagreement, Ruth and Naomi establish familial and communal bonds that emerge from faith, commitment and willingness to share another person’s burdens and blessings.  Observing Naomi’s character and genuine faith in God motivates Ruth to offer her immortal words of commitment.  Plausibly, Ruth admires Naomi’ s steadfast faith in God despite the famine that led to her stay in Moab, the death of her husband and sons and her words “the Lord’s hand has gone out against me.”  In addition, Naomi decides to leave in response to learning of the Lord’s provision.  I imagine Ruth, considering these variables, determines she prefers to live with a woman  of such formidable faith.  Is the god whom the Moabites worship able to match the power of Naomi’s God?  Will Ruth’s extended family extend to her the same selfless love and compassion Naomi freely gives?  Will Ruth necessarily find a Moabite husband who offers her a life better than what she may enjoy in Judah?  Potentially, Naomi’s selfless love becomes the catalyst for Ruth’s faith which she formalizes in her vow of commitment.

Let’s examine exactly what Ruth pledges.  First, she appeals to Naomi to cease from urging her to leave or return to Moab.  Second, Ruth promises to go wherever Naomi goes.  This component of the vow is reminiscent of God’s directive to Abram; go to the place where I send you.  Ruth agrees to follow God’s instructions as He reveals them to Naomi.  Third, Ruth pledges to assume Naomi’s family as her very own.  That pledge is a critical commitment considering the racial, cultural and national tensions between the Israelites and Moabites.  Plus, Ruth has no assurance Naomi’s family will receive her as favorably as her mother-in-law has.  Yet, Ruth agrees to overcome all necessary human, relational and social barriers to ensure continual fidelity and growth in her relationship with Naomi.  Furthermore, Ruth swears to change her religion; she will begin serving the God of Israel instead of the deities of Moab whom she worshiped previously.  Essentially, Ruth vows to become a Jewish convert; she will begin to follow the Law of Moses with its many dictates revealing the holy character and Name of Almighty God.  Ruth seals her vow of commitment with the final plank of requesting severe divine judgment should she fail to keep her commitment.

Ruth and Naomi’s dedication to each other exemplifies the commitment that disciples of our Lord are to have toward Him and each other.  More specifically, their relationship and vow illustrate the undying covenant that a husband and a wife share in marriage.  God perfectly intends only death separates a man and woman who share Ruth’s vow of commitment.  Undergirded by God’s love in Christ, this unparalleled vow distinguishes Christian men and women in marriage and ministry within the body of Christ.  The Lord says the love we show toward each other will demonstrate uniquely to the world that we are His disciples (John 13:34-35 and John 15:9-17).

Concluding Reflections

Families are the primary communities to which we belong.  In the nuclear family unit, we receive our first lessons of life relating to faith, education, commitment, values, work, and ambition.  We learn to love God and neighbor because our parents or primary caretakers teach us the importance of genuine spirituality.  In fact, we learn to love ourselves because our mothers and fathers teach us about our uniqueness as children of God.  Additionally, as members of families, we learn how to care about others and share our resources of time, talent, treasure and temperament with them.  The lessons in the family community extend to the Church and larger society.  Interestingly, the Lord Jesus Christ redefines the family and in so doing He revises the traditional notions of the purpose and composition of a community.  Once when told that His mothers and brothers were waiting to see Him, Jesus responds, “Whoever does God’s will is my brother and sister and mother.”  Assembled for this individual and collective purpose, members of the Church expand upon the love, care, grace and support of a nuclear family.

Three Personal Objectives

  • Reconsider our traditional understanding that biology, genealogy and legacy determine a family.
  • Evaluate the ways in which our nuclear family constitutes our primary learning community.
  • Discuss the Lord’s definition of family as recorded in Matthew 3:31-35.

Prayer

Our dear, gracious Heavenly Father, enable us to see each other as You see us.  We are all Your children.  By the power and gift of the Holy Spirit, open the eyes of our hearts and reveal to us the spiritual truth that we are related through Your blood.  Teach us to be a loving and caring community in obedience to Your Word.  We are the family and community of faith in our Lord Jesus Christ.  Amen.


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