“As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” (Proverbs 27:17 – NIV) Today, I launch a new clergy collegial blog. I hope we will encourage and empower each other toward success and excellence in pastoral ministry. As I sit in the Pastor’s Study at Cambria Heights Community Church, I often ponder the possible feedback of clergy colleagues as it relates to preparing sermons, counseling in particularly difficult situation, designing fresh worship, balancing competing priorities of ministry, marriage and family, maintaining self-care, pursuing personal dreams and private interests outside of ministry and family, and finding resources to meet the ever evolving and changing needs of the people whom I serve. After a sustained period of prayer, reflection and meditation, I realize I can invite you to come “In The Pastor’s Study” for an exchange of ideas.

Thursday, January 5, 2012

Five Diamonds of Spiritual Growth


Five Diamonds of Spiritual Growth

(1) Resolve Undue Influence Given to Childhood Experiences
v  Grapple with negative childhood influences and messages
v  Cease the uncritical acceptance of the opinions and thoughts of others

v  Erase the negative childhood tapes

(2) Appreciate Your Worth as a Child of God
v  Comprehend the strength of God’s love for you as an individual
v  Appreciate your worth as a child of God – Psalm 139
v  Begin self acceptance and eradicate low self esteem
v  Carl G. Jung – the process of individuation
v  Shakespeare – “To thine own self be true!”

v  Know thy self
v  Accept thy self
v  Love thy self
v  Discover thy passions

(3) Understand the Biblical Principle of Stewardship
v  Poor understanding of stewardship of time, finances and health
v  The Parable of the Talents – Matthew 25:14-30

v  Commit to becoming a better steward of one’s resources
v  Remember “Less is more”
v  Become “leaner and meaner”
v  Complete a Bible study on the benefits of good stewardship

(4) Utilize the Spiritual Discipline of Self-Analysis
v  Become willing to look intensely at your character and behavior
v  Ask the question, “What is God’s will for my life?”
v  What is my raison de tre?
v  Why am I doing all of the things that I am doing?
v  Have routine conversations with the person in the mirror
v  Take an inventory of one’s assets and liabilities
v  Define goals for growth
v  Develop a mission statement in accordance with God’s will
v  Conquer each and everyone of your fears
v  Clarify and examine one’s values, principles and priorities

(5) Prioritize Spiritual Growth and Personal Development
v  Foster a vibrant relationship with God
v  Don’t confuse rituals with relationship
v  Spirituality receives the “leftovers” of time, money and one’s other resources and energies
v  Possesses a poor understanding of service to God and humankind

v  Commit to daily and weekly spiritual maintenance
v  Prayer
v  Meditation
v  Daily Quiet Time
v  Daily Devotional Time
v  Daily Bible Study
v  Corporate Christian Education
v  Attend spiritual and personal growth sessions
v  Read relevant books
v  Counseling
v  Join a supplementary group
v  Practice good stewardship of health and body
v  Practice good stewardship of time and money
v  Take regular inventories of assets and liabilities
v  Commit to a hobby

v  Give attention to all components of self
v  Mind - Learning
v  Heart - Love of God, self and others
v  Soul - Imagination
v  Spirit – Acquiring the love and personality of God
v  Body – Health, Diet, Sleep and Exercise
v  Psyche – Character Development
v  Will – Goals and Dreams

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